Saturday, February 28, 2009

FAVOUR!!

Further to this, Jordan has been found!! Details are sketchy, but will update when possible. This was reported in the news.

Adrenaline Junkie Self Test

Further to this, here's a little self test to see if you might be - or be on the track of being- an adrenaline junkie. Answer the questions below with a simple yes/no. Keep track of your answers.

Adrenaline Addict Self-Test

I drink caffeinated coffee or drinks to get or keep going.
I eat sugary foods / sugar to calm myself down.
I tend to over promise and then rush to get it done at the last minute.
I find some way to sabotage myself or a project, yet usually pull it off.
I tend to take on more than I really want because I feel I can.
I react strongly to the unexpected.
I find myself getting very upset or irritated (whether I show it or not) when people let me down, missdeadlines or do less-than-optimal work. Sometimes I take it personally.
I arrive at work rushed or already “on”.
I get grabbed by surprises and disturbances and then I can’t calm down for a day or more.
I feel an inner rush or lack of stillness or peace much of the time.
I’m the kind of person who tends to find the toughest way to get something done.
I drive more than 5 miles over the speed limit, tailgate or criticize other drivers.
I tend to run or arrive late, even if it’s not my fault.
I find that I attract more problems and disturbances than I feel I deserve.
Money is currently tight and I have been working on getting ahead, but haven’t.
It is difficult to focus on any one thing for more than 10 minutes at a time.
I don’t give myself plenty of time during the day for the things that are likely to come up.
I talk a lot even after people have stopped listening.
I please people to the point of feeling compulsive, regardless of appropriateness or cost.

Scoring: If you answered yes to 5 or more of these, welcome to the club. When you’re ready, willing and able, invest in outside counsel to get through this addiction. From here

Adrenaline Junkie Type #2

Further to this...
2. The Personal Deflector – this is the type that uses their addiction to keep from assessing themselves and reflecting on their situation. They often have problems in their personal lives – or no personal life at all – and the last thing they want to do is face up to that. So they convince themselves that they have no time for their personal lives; which, sadly, only exacerbates the problem and prolongs the pain of dealing with it.

Friday, February 27, 2009

Missing! Please Pray!!


Another prayer request!

We heard tonight that my cousin's wife's niece has gone missing as of late last night. She went to get something from the store with her dad's truck. A little later her dad noticed the truck was back...the lights were left on, the groceries were in the truck, but his daughter, Jordan, was nowhere to be found. Here is what my cousin's wife wrote. "Jordan is 16 and was last seen in the Penhold Shell. She was wearing a black sweater, pj pants and runners. Please phone (403) 227-3020 if you have any info."

There is no reason to suspect that she ran away or left. We are praying for her safe return.

If you know of people in the Central Alberta area, please forward them this post!

Rob Update #3

Further to this, here is an update as of yesterday morning...keep praying!

Rob has since come out of his sedation a couple of times. I believe it was Tuesday that Rob actually opened his eyes. Shannon was there to see him, so was Mom Pearson and Mrs. Blake amongst others. He has been given more sedatives in order that he not feel any of the pain that may be prevalent. We are seeing very positive outcomes and resurgence from his vitals and organs. Thank you to everyone who is thinking, praying and otherwise wishing good vibes for Rob and Shannon.

Adrenaline Junkie Type #1

One of the problems that I see with being an adrenaline junkie is that we just stay too busy. Too busy for family, for prayer, for down time, for relationships -with God and others. We are a BUSY society!! This addiction often manifests in work, but can really be seen in any team setting, including (or especially) family.

Not all adrenaline addicts are the same. There are four types:

1. The Accomplisher – this is the classic type of adrenaline addict, the one who has an almost innate need to stay busy and cross things off a list (mental or actual) in order to feel productive. They like to be able to measure daily progress in terms of what they have completed, even at the expense of the bigger, longer term view. Accomplishers are most susceptible to developing an adrenaline addiction because they are prone to take on more and more work.

We'll go through the other 3 over the next day or so...



Are You a Junkie?


Are you someone that has trouble stopping? Trouble taking time to relax? Feel guilty if you slow down? Never take holidays and secretly resent those that do? Feel like everything depends on you? List maker and checker? You may have a problem...

Patrick Lencioni, author of The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, has this to say about adrenaline addicts:

Always overwhelmed, adrenaline junkies seem to have a constant need for urgency, even panic, to get them through the day. They cannot grasp the race driver’s motto: you have to slow down to go fast. Instead, they keep their foot on the pedal at full throttle, convinced that any deceleration is lost opportunity.

There is something particularly insidious about adrenaline addiction that makes it hard for many leaders to kick the habit. Unlike other addicts whose behaviors are socially frowned-upon, adrenaline addicts are often praised for their frantic activity, even promoted for it during their careers. And so they often wear their problem like a badge of honor, failing to see it as an addiction at all in spite of the pain it causes.

This is an issue that I've struggled with and continually must guard against. I'm going to post over the next few days about the various 'manifestations' (Accomplisher, Personal Deflector, Organizational Deflector, and Dramatist) of an adrenaline junkie and pass on some thoughts on how to overcome it and its destructive influence in our lives.

Fighting Global Poverty From the Comox Valley


The students at our Christian School will be participating in the World Vision 30 Hour Famine next week. It is great to see them building a life of service to others that flows out of a love for God. We're proud of you guys!

This is what is happening...perhaps you might join them?!

Our grade 6-10 students are invited to participate in The 30 Hour Famine on March 5th-6th. Our grade K-5 students are invited to participate in The 30 Hour Tech Fast on March 6th-7th

30 Hour Famine and Technology Fast is an international youth movement to fight hunger. It will bring our group closer together and to God, feed hungry children, and change our world forever. Students fast for thirty hours and raise funds to help feed and care for children around the world. By sacrificing and serving others, they are learning to think outside themselves and see the world as Christ sees it.

Growing Up Way Too Fast!

There are days that I feel exactly like this Dad.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Don't Judge Too Quickly

This is an old one, but a good one...

Monday, February 23, 2009

Dinner


I made dinner tonight...and no one died. For this we give thanks. Actually, I do like to be the cook once in awhile. I don't have the skill of Shanda, or the creativity to do it on a regular basis, but I can read a recipe and follow it (for the most part).

I got pointed to this wonderful recipe for Curry Chicken by my sister-in-law, Tracie. It was very good over rice!

Here's the recipe. We'd recommend it!

Rob Update #2

Further to this, here is an update.

Two days ago, Rob was taken off of the things that they used to put him into an induced coma. He has still not woken up. They are very concerned. They will be performing tests to see if there is any brain activity. Please pray for a miracle! Thank you.

Completely Different

For those of you that tuned out when you saw the last post regarding politics, here's something completely different.


Sunday, February 22, 2009

CV Political Scuttlebut #2

Well, the local race to be the candidate for the BC Liberal Party candidate in the Comox Valley riding is heating up. The candidates that have filed letters to indicate their interest are: Don McRae (Courtenay councillor), Jon Toogood (former chair Habitat for Humanity Courtenay), Roberta Stevenson. Tomorrow, Shawn Wilson, Director of the Salvation Army Courtenay will announce his candidacy. Apparently, Ken Dawson (defeated school trustee) is also weighing his options.

I (with about 7 others)met with Don McRae on Saturday morning. Don has obviously thought about this and had some well thought out answers. He is also well connected in the community - having been raised here, taught here for 14 years and a city councilor for 6 or 8 years.

Roberta Stevenson is new to the political scene but seems to have a solid business background and is assembling a campaign team with many federal Conservatives. Roberta seemed like a good communicator in the short talk she gave when I went to hear her at a 'meet and greet' on Saturday afternoon.

John Toogood is fairly well known in the community for his work with Habitat for Humanity. He seems to be a 'get things done' guy having led Habitat to get 3 houses built in Courtenay.

Shawn Wilson has a solid track record of community involvement with his work at the Salvation Army. He is a hard worker and has an intimate knowledge of the 'social justice' side of the scale. He'll give more on his qualifications at a news conference tomorrow. I hope to be able to attend it.

At this point, I'm undecided as to who I'll support. After talking to many different people in the community, I hear people ranking them this way (see below). I'm not saying I agree with these assessments, I'm just telling what I'm hearing:
  1. Don McRae
  2. Roberta Stevenson
  3. Shawn Wilson
  4. Jon Toogood
  5. Ken Dawson

If you want to be able to vote in the candidate selection meeting you need to be a BC Liberal party member. You can go here to get them to mail you a membership form. I wouldn't wait on this. You will need to have it into the BC Liberal headquarters by March 4, so you'll need to get on it. A quicker way might be to contact one of the candidates to sign up.

The nomination meeting will be held on March 12. Time and location TBA.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Want a Pet?

Ever wondered what it would be like to have an out of the ordinary pet? The next time your child / grandchild asks for some off the wall pet, just show them this video...

Friday, February 20, 2009

Thursday, February 19, 2009

It's Probably Time.

I'm glad that I have a job that is great where I am working for and with people that are awesome! However, I have had jobs where there came a point when it was time to move on. Ever see yourself in one of these examples?


Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Open Gang Warfare

As you can read below, there is a great need for something to be done to stop the gang-related shooting and killing in the Lower Mainland. There have been 12 shootings in 17 days in February!

The provincial government is working on a response. Even the federal government is calling the area the 'center of gang activity' in Canada. Regardless of what they do, this is also a call to prayer for the church. In Romans 13, the Bible talks about one of the roles of government as being, "They are God's servants, sent for the very purpose of punishing those who do what is wrong" We need to pray for wisdom for these servants of God. What do you think the government should be doing? Vote on our poll at the top of the page!


VANCOUVER -- A four-year-old boy who witnessed his mother's shooting death was taken into provincial custody for his own safety Tuesday, as B.C.'s bloody February continued with the fatal shooting of a home invader, apparently shot by one of his victims.

(his mom) Nicole Marie Alemy, 23, who was gunned down behind the wheel of a Cadillac in the Vancouver suburb of Surrey on Monday, was going home after picking up a birthday present, her uncle said a day later.

The car coasted through an intersection before a passerby steered it across a sidewalk and up onto the driveway.

Police arrived on the scene to find the woman dead and the little boy crying but unhurt. The boy was in the back seat of the car when his mother was shot.

In another incident on Tuesday's -- the 12th such shooting in February -- a south Vancouver mother watched in horror as two gunmen forced their way into her home and pointed a gun at her son.

Mabel Mohammed said the gunmen were asking for someone named Azim, whom Ms. Mohammed said the family does not know.

They then shot and wounded her son Aleem, 19, in the shoulder, she said.

His brother, Amir, then wrestled the gun away and shot one of the assailants dead, Ms. Mohammed said, adding that the other assailant fled.

"We are in danger. They came to the wrong house," she said.

After the Dentist

Hate going to the dentist? If so you'll probably like this video. It may be a good reminder to watch the laughing gas you use in your next dental visit...Here's the explanation by the video creator.

This is my 7 year old son who had an extra tooth removed last summer, 2008.
I had the camera because he was so nervous before and I wanted him to see the before and after.
He was so out of it after, I had to carry him out of the office. The staff was trying to keep from laughing. I had tears from laughing so hard. He is doing fine now and the teeth are great.





Monday, February 16, 2009

Rob Update

As an update to this, please keep praying. See below

The following update is from our friend Chris (Rob's bro in law).

As most of you know, Rob is not well. Currently Rob is in stable condition at the Toronto General Hospital.
There have been many visitors lately and we know this is having a very positive impact on Rob's well being. For those of you who don't know, Rob has been in the ICU for over a week now. He is currently under a drug induced coma while the medical teams figure out what to do next. His heart is now stable and doing much of its work on its own. His kidneys are not back yet but his liver has recovered.
Rob will survive this battle; but his road to recovery will be long and arduous. We wish him well. All prayers thoughts and positive energy need to be sent his way ... and to Shannon.
We will try to update when possible.
Email if you have questions.
ciao,
Chris

Coca Cola Heist

If you're a Coca Cola fan, you'll identify with this Super Bowl commercial. If not, you'll think the bugs are crazy. The animation is amazing.


Saturday, February 14, 2009

Global Warming?

Global Warming? Climate Change? What is really happening? Is it as bad as some (Al Gore, etc.) have made out?

Experts at Britain's top climate research centre have launched a blistering attack on scientific colleagues and journalists who exaggerate the effects of global warming.

The Met Office Hadley Centre, one of the most prestigious research facilities in the world, says recent "apocalyptic predictions" about Arctic ice melt and soaring temperatures are as bad as claims that global warming does not exist. Such statements, however well-intentioned, distort the science and could undermine efforts to tackle carbon emissions, it says.

In an article published on the Guardian website, Dr Vicky Pope, head of climate change advice at the Met Office, calls on scientists and journalists to stop misleading the public with "claim and counter-claim".

She writes: "Having to rein in extraordinary claims that the latest extreme [event] is all due to climate change is at best hugely frustrating and at worse enormously distracting. Overplaying natural variations in the weather as climate change is just as much a distortion of science as underplaying them to claim that climate change has stopped or is not happening."

Say it With Flowers #13


Happy Valentines Day! This is our final installment in our 'Say it With Flowers' segment. Thus, it is fitting that we end with a flourish! Here it is....

3 Red Roses - "I love you"
6 Red Roses - "I wanna be yours"
7 Red Roses - "I'm infatuated with you"
24 Red Roses "Can't stop thinking of you, 24 hours a day"
33 Red Roses - "Saying I love you with great affection"
99 Red Roses - "I will love you as long as I live"
100 Red Roses "Remaining passionate and devoted as a couple until a ripe old age" (+-$400)
365 Roses - "Can't stop thinking of you, each and every day"
999 Roses - "Everlasting and Eternal love"

Friday, February 13, 2009

The Valentine a Wife Really Needs

In the book, He Said, She Said : Candid Conversations about the Making of a Great Marriage, Bill & Anabel Gillham listed some of the top ways women finish this statement:

I wish my husband would love me by …

  1. Listening to me.
  2. Taking my “petty problems” seriously.
  3. Noticing me more - not just when he wants sex.
  4. Saying “thank you” for the things I do.
  5. Being interested in my life … at least acting like you’re interested.
  6. Showing affection when other people are around.
  7. Sharing his goals and values with me, talking his business over with me.
  8. Taking me out without the kids more - maybe just for a ride.
  9. Including me in the things he does.
  10. Just holding me in his arms and talking to me.
  11. Being tender - using kind, tender words.
  12. Helping in the discipline of the children.
  13. Accepting me just as I am.
  14. Spending more time with the family.


The Valentine a Husband Really Needs.

For the wives - I read this partial list at this blog
Some good insight on ways to reach your husband and grow the health of your relationship

1.Pray for him daily
and trust God to answer your requests.
  • Pray for his well-being, wisdom, protection, blessings, guidance, knowledge, spiritual maturity, success, purity, strength in temptation, etc.
  • Look for God’s answers to your prayers.
  • Thank God for working in your family.
  • Thank God for your husband.
  • Pray for your attitude.
2. Look for the positive side of things that you may find irritating.
3. Make a list
of your husband’s qualities that you appreciate. Review and add to your list regularly.
4. Tell your husband what you appreciate about him. Tell others what you appreciate about him.
5. Don’t criticize your husband to others – especially your children.

Say it With Flowers #12


If you're just happy and excited about something or someone and want to send a message to show that, this tip is for you!

Red and Yellow Roses together = "Let's celebrate!"

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Say it With Flowers #11


This is a very rare rose - but can by created in a variety of ways. If you find one, you are truly industrious!

Blue = "You're mysterious"

One Year to Go!

It is exactly one year until the start of the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver/Whistler! It is exciting to have it come to our province. I don't think that we'll be able to go as I missed putting in to get some tickets. Now, the only option will probably be scalpers. Oh well, I guess it is nice and warm watching it at home -even better! (at least that is what I'm telling myself).

I went to a Chamber of Commerce event last night where Silken Laumann was the speaker. There was some mingling before with a great appy buffet from the chefs of the Kingfisher featuring bounty of the Comox Valley. Tender and tasty buffalo meat wraps, a grilled tuna that was a bit raw on the inside and sushi and vegetables. It was all amazingly good!

Oh - back to the story. The great thing of the Olympics is that they often provide us with pictures of accomplishment and inspiration.

Silken was a 1992 Olympia who had a severe injury that severed tendons, ligament, had 200 pieces of wood stuck in it (another boat hit her) and generally mashed her leg just 10 weeks before the Olympics. She went from being a gold medal favourite to being told that she'd never row again and would walk with a limp for the rest of her life. She did not accept that prognosis, but went to work and ended up competing in the Olympics and winning a bronze medal! An amazing story of courage, passion and determination.

She said a particular quote about the power of dreams, "What lies between you and your dream realized is the belief that somehow, some way you are going to get there." In other words, belief or faith is a huge factor in your success.

Now that is just the power of human belief which God placed within us. I was challenged when I thought that when you put that with the fact that, as Jesus followers, we have God Himself behind us we should be the biggest dreamers for positive change! The world (our lives, families and communities) can, and should be, a different place as we allow God to dream through us!

What are you dreaming for? Is it bigger than you?

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

What Have They Been Smoking?

I'm not a drinker and I've never smoked a joint. I can safely say that I don't have a preference for either. :-) However, I do find being forced to accomodate someone toking up in your pub is a strange thing - even for Canada. But that is exactly what a restaurant owner is being asked to do by the Human Rights Commission. Were they smoking too??

Ted Kindos faces two choices: Continue to be called a bigot or break the law. Either way, he risks going bankrupt.
Kindos owns Gator Ted’s Tap & Grill in Burlington. Four years ago, he asked a marijuana smoker to step away from his front door. The medically licensed toker complained to the Ontario Human Rights Commission of discrimination against a disabled person. He won.
Kindos was about to pay the fine and post obligatory signs saying, “We
accommodate medicinal marijuana smokers,” when a different government agency
told him he could lose his liquor licence. Serving anybody possessing a
controlled substance - prescribed or not - is against the law.

Read the rest here

Say it With Flowers #10

This is one that I'll be giving out on behalf of my daughters until they're 30 or so. :) (okay, so I'm a bit protective. I'm allowed to be - I'm a dad!)1 white rose bud = "I'm too young for love"

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Prayer Please


Our friend and eye doctor, Dr. Tanya Flood of Coastal Eyecare, has a brother, Rob. Rob is in need of prayer. His life is hanging in the balance in a hospital in Toronto. Rob is a young man in his early 30s.

His heart is racing at high speeds and they are having difficulty getting it under control. They do not know yet what is causing this. Can you pray for Rob, please? Pray for healing. Pray for wisdom for the doctors. Pray for peace God's peace to be with them all in this difficult time.

Can you also please pass this post along to other praying people? We need to see a miracle.

Political Scuttlebutt.


On January 20, our local MLA, Stan Hagen, died suddenly. It was a tragedy, and he will be sorely missed. He was an honourable man who served well.

The jockeying and process to replace him has been underway since he passed. On Sunday afternoon, I went to the local constituency association AGM of the BC Liberal party to see what was happening.. While there, I was intrigued to find out the three that have already formally filed 'letters of intent' to become the candidate in the upcoming election. Those that have done this are: Jon Toogood who started Habitat for Humanity in Courtenay; Don McRae, curren Courtenay City Councillor and Roberta Stevenson, Executive Director of the BC Shellfish Growers Association.

Scuttlebutt at the meeting was that there are up to 5 more potentials...Paul Ives, Mayor of Comox; Ken Dawson recently defeated school trustee, Shawn Wilson of the Salvation Army, and a couple of others that I haven't heard about yet.

I've also heard that a certain network of Courtenay is going to get solidly behind Don McRae to get him elected. If that happens, a by-election would be necessary in Courtenay. Then, recently defeated Courtenay mayor, Starr Winchester, will run goes the story. Himmmm....it'll be interesting to see how it all plays out.

Say it With Flowers #9


This is a tip that you can use all year round! It has usage in many different situations.

Dark Pink = "Thank you!"

Monday, February 9, 2009

Random Tidbits


On Saturday, I went with my dad, Anika and Alaina to look at a calf in Black Creek. I got out of the vehicle and left the keys in. Once I had located the farmer, I motioned everyone to come and check out the calves with me. They were nice looking - especially when pictured in the form of a t-bone steak. MMMM... We needed to get going to be back in time to get ready for Saturday night service. So we were in a bit of a hurry.

When we went back to the vehicle, we discovered that our dog, Bentley, had used the auto door lock to lock us out!! On top of that, the keys were in the ignition... We motioned and called him to come over to try and get him to 'unlock' it with his paw again. He looked at us all excited, started waggin his tail - but no unlocking. I went over to the other side. He was now really excited. I kept calling him to the spot where I thought he'd hit the switch. He stood on the switch. I yanked the door and it didn't work. He moved a bit and I heard it click and yanked the door open.

Grandma Update #3

As an update to this post, Grandma Scott is doing much better!! She went home from the hospital last Friday. I talked to her on Friday and she sounded great. She sounded alert and sharp. She wanted all that were praying to know that she could feel the prayer and is very thankful for it. So thanks very much!

Say it With Flowers #8


A tip that you can use in a lot of different occassions -

Light Pink = "You make me happy!"

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Guys like this...aarrgh

I read this post on a Promise Keepers blog and realized that I have a lot of work to do if I'm to get anywhere close to this. I'm lucky if I remember Valentines and other 'romantic' things and rarely think of something appropriate to do! Men like this guy below make life tough for the rest of us. Read this story as told by his wife...I'm going out to bang my head on the wall.

My husband Chris and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary on Valentine's Day this year. It has been just the best 20 years of my life and I'm so blessed to have him as my husband. The most romantic thing he's done for me during that time is written to me each week of our marriage (yes, every single WEEK) telling me how much he loves me and about the things that have happened to us during the past 7 days. He started this on the day we were married and it has now grown into what we call the "Journal of our Marriage". He's written about the good times, sad and bad times, and even just the plain boring times. What makes this even more special is that we both work - he does permanent night shift and I work during the day, so we don't get to spend an awful lot of time together, but this is his way of making a few special moments where all he concentrates on is me and our life together. So often men have trouble expressing their love in verbal form, let alone written, but I feel so cherished as I read each one.
Could anything be more romantic?




Canuck Jokes

The Canucks have won their last 2 games in a row after 8 losses. They have some good things going finally. Let's hope it lasts. However, as a Canuck fan, you tend to get a bit pessimistic over time. Here's a few Canuck jokes that I found on-line that reflect that...

The RCMP are cracking down on speeders heading into Vancouver. For the first offence, they give you two Vancouver Canucks tickets. If you are stopped a second time, they make you use them.

Q. What do you call 30 millionaires around a TV watching the Stanley Cup playoffs? A. The Vancouver Canucks

Q. How do you keep the Vancouver Canucks out of your yard? A. Put up a goal net.

Q. What do you call a Vancouver Canuck with a Stanley Cup ring? A. A thief.

Q. How many Vancouver Canucks does it take to win a Stanley Cup? A. Nobody knows and we may never find out.

Q. What do the Vancouver Canucks and possums have in common? A. Both play dead at home and are killed on the road.

Say it With Flowers #7


If you're not so good with words, or maybe you want to re-affirm a truth, this tip will really help you to say it!


Red and white roses together = "We belong together."

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Can You Spot the Chick?

post your guess in comments...

Say it With Flowers #6


This is for those of you that are dating and want to take it to the next level of committment!

Two intertwined roses = "I have something to ask you" (a marriage proposal is imminent)

Friday, February 6, 2009

What Abortionists Don't Want You to Hear...

words fail me right now...I'm shocked...We need help

TAMPA, Florida — Eighteen and pregnant, Sycloria Williams went to an abortion clinic outside Miami and paid $1,200 for Dr. Pierre Jean-Jacque Renelique to terminate her 23-week pregnancy.

Three days later, she sat in a reclining chair, medicated to dilate her cervix and otherwise get her ready for the procedure.

Only Renelique didn't arrive in time. According to Williams and the Florida Department of Health, she went into labor and delivered a live baby girl.

What Williams and the Health Department say happened next has shocked people on both sides of the abortion debate: One of the clinic's owners, who has no medical license, cut the infant's umbilical cord. Williams says the woman placed the baby in a plastic biohazard bag and threw it out.

At 23 weeks, an otherwise healthy fetus would have a slim but legitimate chance of survival. Quadruplets born at 23 weeks last year at The Nebraska Medical Center survived.

An autopsy determined Williams' baby — she named her Shanice — had filled her lungs with air, meaning she had been born alive, according to the Department of Health.

Full Story Here

Yes or No



On Thursday night, I finished reading Organic Community by Joseph R. Meyers. It it he quotes a man by the name of Keith Johnstone: "There are people who prefer to say, 'yes', and there are people who would prefer to say, 'no'. Those who say 'yes' are rewarded by the adventures they have and those who say 'no' are rewarded by the safety they have."

Too often we say no to possibilities that God sets before us. Maybe like me, you are tempted at times to comfortably settle into life and silently say 'no' to God, His call, and the need of our world. However, we cannot dream very big or see very much if we are 'no' people. No" gives us security - but also the prison of scarcity, predictability, sameness and pessimism. "Yes" opens a door to a plethora of possibilities, spontaneity, adventure and optimism. That sounds more like the kind of life Jesus lived...

I want to grow as a man for God.

Say it With Flowers #5

This tip could help you send a message that gets super bonus points with your special someone...

50 Red Roses = "I love you no matter what' Cost: around $200...wonder if a crayon drawing and writing the words would count?

Newfie Bloc

NEWFOUNDLAND AND LABRADOR BLOC PARTY

Six Newfoundland Federal Liberal MPs recently voted against the federal budget that their party supported. The premier of their province, Danny Williams, was howling about how bad the budget was for Newfoundland. He made it clear that he would be very angry if the Newfie MPs didn't vote against the budget - no matter what their leader said.

So they caved to the premier of their province, rather than follow the leader of the party they were elected with. They did it in the interest of their province...actually for clear self interest (fearing not getting reelected). They did not stand for a decision that was a.) agreed on by their party and b) determined to be in the national goodby their leader.. Their leader, Michael Ignatieff, timidly did not discipline them, but rather gave them a 'one-time' exemption from their responsibilities.
(Danny Williams - left)


This is a dangerous precedent for a provincial leader to be directing federal politicians. We expect this pettiness from the Bloc Quebecois, unfortunately. However, federal politicians are supposed to weigh decisions based on the good of the entire Canadian federation, not regional issues. Regional issues are properly dealt with on a 'government to government' level, not by thuggish intimidation tactics as used by Premier Danny Williams. We risk descending into a country of regions, rather than the grand Dominion envisioned by our founders. We are better and stronger together than as individual regions working for self interest.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

FSA. A Waste or Necessary?

FSA is not a disease. It is a standardized test administered to grades 4, 7, and 10. The government feels that it is one tool of several that gives them a 'snapshot' of how students are doing and where/if improvement is needed. Teachers feel it is a waste of time, money and an unnecessary stress on students. Teachers feel that their subjective observation is much more valuable. The government is mandating it while the vast majority of teachers do not want to administer it.

ONE VIEW:
One is left wondering whether the union is mostly interested in killing off data that could suggest when its members are failing kids.

Other professionals in B.C. -- doctors, lawyers, engineers -- embrace systems to reveal and correct mistakes and incompetence. BCTF members won't be viewed as full professionals until they do the same.

Another view:

The BCTF is encouraging parents to write to school principals requesting that their children be excluded from the tests.

The union maintains the province should use random sampling methods instead of testing all students in reading, writing and math.
What do you think? Vote in the poll at the top of the page

Know a Baby? Read this!


MONTREAL — For many parents, the baby's car seat has long been a magical spot where even the fussiest infant would finally drift off to a peaceful slumber.

But a Quebec coroner who examined the sudden death of a two-month-old boy has issued a stark warning: Parents who leave their newborns semi-reclined in car seats for hours on end are putting them at higher risk of sudden death by asphyxiation.


Dr. Robinson offered more detailed instructions: “A baby sleeps on his back, on a firm mattress, in his own bed, with no objects in the bed with him, not even covers, if it's possible.”

full details here.

Say it With Flowers #4


This is good tip to use - especially if you miss a birthday, anniversary or some other random time when you just blow it.

15 Red Roses = "I'm Sorry"

I'm Sure Some People Will Be Surprised and Disappointed...


Globe and Mail headline: Bumps in the road prove an idolized President is only human


(I am sure that Obama has never claimed any Messianic or god-like powers. However, I am amused at commentators who fawn over him like he is a messiah. I am poking fun at that position not Mr. Obama.)

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

We Need Help

Pastor Scott led a discussion and prayer time in our staff meeting about our need as men and women to maintain an ever-present hunger for 'more'. Not more things, more clothes, more stuff, but rather more of the power and presence of Holy Spirit in our lives, families and church family. The enemy of best can too often be good.

Sometimes we can get too comfortable in life and miss the great needs of our world and our responsibility as followers of Jesus, to cooperate with Holy Spirit to see things change.

What is going on - or has gone on - in the life of this young man in the story below? We can blame lots of people and things and agencies, and I'm sure that there is a enough to go around. However, it underscores the deep need of the people of God to get 'hungry' for more to see a nation change.

A 13-year-old boy who has had 75 run-ins with the law over the past year was arrested by Vancouver police on the weekend for allegedly slashing a man who refused the boy's request for a cigarette.

The boy "flew into a rage" during a SkyTrain ride late on Sunday and started swinging a knife around, according to transit police spokesman Constable Tom Seaman. The 23-year-old victim was cut severely on his left hand, which he raised to deflect the blade.

God, we need help...

Say it With flowers #3


A Dozen Red Roses = 'It's true love!'

This Must Drive Left Wingers Crazy

The left wing of the political spectrum has continually used the Iraq war as a battering ram against George W. Bush and his policies. The left almost 'cheer-led' defeat of the American forces, hoping to pin it on GWB. But in the face of intense opposition, when many wanted to 'cut and run, GWBush ordered the 'surge' and actually increased the number of American forces. He was committed to seeing this through. Although they are not out of the woods yet, it appears that the strategy has worked. Let's hope and pray that a bad situation has turned and that peace truly takes root there.

"As the interim results from Iraq's provincial elections trickle in it is becoming

obvious the vote has transformed the country and possibly the Middle East.

A new generation of Iraqi politicians appears to be stepping to the forefront, young, secular and rooted in the country - not exiles riding the coattails of a U.S. invasion force.

In a dramatic move away from the sectarian and religious-based politics that traumatized Iraq after the fall of Saddam Hussein, voters appear to have picked Sunni and Shiite secular parties at the expense of their religious competition.

Uncomfortable though it may be for some on the American left to admit, the ‘surge' continues to work, politically and militarily. The moment has come for the Obama administration to acknowledge what those fingers dipped in purple ink truly represent - a triumph for democracy."

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

A Happy Ending...

A Saanich man missing in the woods for five days was found Friday, just hours from death.

Mike Marlon Wiger, 27, was saved when two men driving by the remote area southwest of Lake Cowichan discovered him in the passenger seat of his pickup truck, trapped in freezing conditions since Monday.

An amazing story here

Say It With Flowers #2

The meaning of 6 Red Roses = "I adore you"

Happy Birthday!


Here's a happy birthday to one of the nicest people I know - Emily Montgomery. Emily is in her final year at UVic. She spent 2 years in PMC with us and we love her lots! Have a great day, Em. We miss you and pray God's richest blessings over you!! I was your age once...in 1995!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Say it With Flowers


Flowers are great for sending messages. Apparently, we can even 'say it with flowers'! In the interest of spreading lots of messages of friendship, joy and love (and the safety of men), I am going to do something. I'm not just going to sit by and watch.

I want to help my readers say the right thing - avoid mixed messages, no messages and unintended messages. No need for unnecessary pain and suffering! So, between now and Valentines, I will have a daily tip on what roses say what.

Here's Say it With Flowers tip #1: 1 Red Rose = "I like you"